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How does one succeed in life?

15.06.2025 01:51

How does one succeed in life?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What do you love to do at night when you’re alone?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How much of lounge pianists playing is from repertoire, and how much is improvised?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Ask yourself:

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Is it possible for the AfD to ever win the chancellorship in Germany?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

What is your secret to glowing skin?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

What is your first experience having sex with older men?

Procrastinates a lot.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why do flat-earth conspiracy theorists believe that photos from space, including those of satellites, are fake?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Do not set goals—set systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Is anal sex allowed in Islam? It's not written anywhere in the Quran whether it's forbidden or not.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do you think that drug addiction is a symptom of larger societal ills? What is it about our culture that leaves so many feeling like they're inadequate, trying any ill to find a cure?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What I need from you?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.